A
decade ago I got a chance to attend a certain prominent man’s burial back in
the village. From all the speeches, he seemed to be a great man while his heart
was still beating. Having been raised from a humble background he managed to go
through to college before holding top and influential positions in different
organizations. He was involved in various charitable initiatives in the village
which made sure most children went to school and inspired youths and women to
venture into profitable businesses just like him.
Despite
his demanding work schedule, he was still able to be an ever-present husband
and father to his wife and three children. According to the family’s speech, he
was portrayed as caring, loving, ever-present and spent good time with them ensuring
that they are faring well in their academics and even had time to share meals
together. I wonder why most men cannot have time for their family yet its possible to
balance family life and work life.
From
the speeches, I could not stop thinking that later today or tomorrow I will bid
the world a goodbye and I need to prepare a great brand before my departure
time.
As
I will be resting in peace I would like people to talk of me as;
A
GOOD LEADER
Nelson
Rolihlahla Mandela, the first president of South Africa is one of the most
popular names amongst motivational speakers. His leadership is a mark of great
change ever seen in South Africa when he dismantled the apartheid legacy by
fighting institutionalized racism and fostered racial reconciliation. His leadership
system made South Africa stand out and be one of the most developed countries
in Africa despite having gained independence late.
His
remarkable leadership means leadership is a rare gift amongst humans and good
leadership aims at positive change in the society.As a leader, my desire is to
always provide long-lasting solutions that will lead to positive growth in any position. My leadership will be described as a hybrid of the good
leadership known today.
PEACE
MAKER
The
late Kofi Atta Annan will be remembered by many for championing for peace in
different parts of the world more so in Kenya during the 2007-2008
post-election violence.
Everyone
holds a different opinion on different matters and for peace to prevail, there
is need to understand and appreciate one another. For as long as I breathe I
will always look beyond the ‘I’ and ‘me’. This helps me consider others and
avoid selfishness. It helps in solving any problem that may arise around me.
Having peace of heart and mind will help me improve other people’s aspects of
life.
PHILANTHROPIST
The
desire to bring change amongst the less fortunate in the society is held by
many who have been through ‘hell’ while growing up just like myself. The fact
that no man will be buried with his wealth humbles me and gives me more reason
to share what I have with others. No matter how rich I may be, the fact about
life makes me equal to a town sweeper or that beggar in our markets. I would
like to use my position and wealth to influence someone’s life positively since
I do not know who will spend my riches after my eternal rest.
A COMMITTED OBSERVER
Journalism is a passion that has sprouted in me for years. My desire as a journalist is to create a common language, understanding and be part of the glue that adheres a community together. I want to be an agent of change in today’s society as a savvy journalist.
Its only as a committed observer that I can
achieve the ideal change that the society needs.
A LOVING AND CARING HUSBAND AND FATHER
Family is important in one’s life since happiness
depends on them. Building a family that can be proud of me is all I want. My
family cannot be what they cannot see. For them to be great they must see
greatness in me. Through my achievements they create a dream, a dream that I
have to be part of, one that I need to build with them. All this should be out
of love for them.
Through giving them an ear I will achieve one
of the most adorable families of my time.
Once in a while we receive a phone call that a
friend, colleague or a family member has died little do we think that a time is
coming others will receive such a call of our departure. The fact that we are
not immortal and death is inevitable makes me aware that my position, wealth or
any other achievement will not justify my legacy rather my deeds are what will
determine my story afterlife. To me success is everyone’s birthright, all
that’s needed is to connect with your heart and identify your right path of
success. Through my success I will always strive to write a powerful and
deserving story for myself before and after life.
