MY STORY AFTERLIFE

Life is the greatest gift God ever gave to human beings. It is upon one to choose their way of life. Have you ever heard a story of someone who recently died and you happen to question what you are doing with yours?

A decade ago I got a chance to attend a certain prominent man’s burial back in the village. From all the speeches, he seemed to be a great man while his heart was still beating. Having been raised from a humble background he managed to go through to college before holding top and influential positions in different organizations. He was involved in various charitable initiatives in the village which made sure most children went to school and inspired youths and women to venture into profitable businesses just like him.

Despite his demanding work schedule, he was still able to be an ever-present husband and father to his wife and three children. According to the family’s speech, he was portrayed as caring, loving, ever-present and spent good time with them ensuring that they are faring well in their academics and even had time to share meals together. I wonder why most men cannot have time for their family yet its possible to balance family life and work life.

From the speeches, I could not stop thinking that later today or tomorrow I will bid the world a goodbye and I need to prepare a great brand before my departure time.

As I will be resting in peace I would like people to talk of me as;

A GOOD LEADER

Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela, the first president of South Africa is one of the most popular names amongst motivational speakers. His leadership is a mark of great change ever seen in South Africa when he dismantled the apartheid legacy by fighting institutionalized racism and fostered racial reconciliation. His leadership system made South Africa stand out and be one of the most developed countries in Africa despite having gained independence late.

His remarkable leadership means leadership is a rare gift amongst humans and good leadership aims at positive change in the society.As a leader, my desire is to always provide long-lasting solutions that will lead to positive growth in any position. My leadership will be described as a hybrid of the good leadership known today.

PEACE MAKER

The late Kofi Atta Annan will be remembered by many for championing for peace in different parts of the world more so in Kenya during the 2007-2008 post-election violence.

Everyone holds a different opinion on different matters and for peace to prevail, there is need to understand and appreciate one another. For as long as I breathe I will always look beyond the ‘I’ and ‘me’. This helps me consider others and avoid selfishness. It helps in solving any problem that may arise around me. Having peace of heart and mind will help me improve other people’s aspects of life.

PHILANTHROPIST

The desire to bring change amongst the less fortunate in the society is held by many who have been through ‘hell’ while growing up just like myself. The fact that no man will be buried with his wealth humbles me and gives me more reason to share what I have with others. No matter how rich I may be, the fact about life makes me equal to a town sweeper or that beggar in our markets. I would like to use my position and wealth to influence someone’s life positively since I do not know who will spend my riches after my eternal rest.

A COMMITTED OBSERVER

Journalism is a passion that has sprouted in me for years. My desire as a journalist is to create a common language, understanding and be part of the glue that adheres a community together. I want to be an agent of change in today’s society as a savvy journalist.

Its only as a committed observer that I can achieve the ideal change that the society needs.

A LOVING AND CARING HUSBAND AND FATHER

Family is important in one’s life since happiness depends on them. Building a family that can be proud of me is all I want. My family cannot be what they cannot see. For them to be great they must see greatness in me. Through my achievements they create a dream, a dream that I have to be part of, one that I need to build with them. All this should be out of love for them.

Through giving them an ear I will achieve one of the most adorable families of my time.

Once in a while we receive a phone call that a friend, colleague or a family member has died little do we think that a time is coming others will receive such a call of our departure. The fact that we are not immortal and death is inevitable makes me aware that my position, wealth or any other achievement will not justify my legacy rather my deeds are what will determine my story afterlife. To me success is everyone’s birthright, all that’s needed is to connect with your heart and identify your right path of success. Through my success I will always strive to write a powerful and deserving story for myself before and after life.